Think of it like talking to an older brother who happens to be obsessed with the science behind all of this.
So you’re a smart introverted overthinker who got buried under contradictory advice from people who have never actually been where you are. Welcome to the club.
Nobody who’s been through the exact pain you’re in has looked at your situation from their perspective and given you a curated plan.
As a formerly labelled loser, autist, geek, introvert, and whatever other labels people can put on you, I turned my lifelong gaming obsession into a looks obsession into a career and systems obsession. Body recomp (maingains) the whole way, never above 12% body fat.
Same guy who spent 13 years avoiding cameras, never went out, managed an eating disorder, and built a system that actually works. All while I worked full-time as a technician in the biggest arcade in UK.
This is how it's gonna go
Whether it’s your looks, future, feeling behind, your career, body, everything, the main goal isn't to obsess over one department. We learn how to figure out which one is dragging you down the hardest right now, deal with it, and keep moving building systems.
1. We start in your DMs for free
Send me a message about whatever's on your mind like your posture, skin, nutrition, style, confidence, career, basically whatever you're stuck on. I'll send you back a voice note with honest, specific advice.
This part costs nothing. I do it because I genuinely want to help, and because it lets us both figure out if a deeper conversation would actually be useful for you.
2. We get on a video call together
If it makes sense, we hop on a 1:1 video call and we have a proper conversation where I am going to log everything down. I ask you questions and you ask me questions, and we get it sorted once and for all. We figure out what’s holding you back.
That's what the call is for.
3. You receive a comprehensive report
Everything we discuss gets turned into a personalised scorecard breakdown, a proper document that maps out your strengths, your gaps, why they exist, and exactly what to do about them. It's cross-referenced against data from over 1,500 other guys who've been in similar positions, so the advice isn't generic. It's specific to your pattern.
4. You get a personalised plan using Divide & Conquer
If after reading the report you want me to actually build the plan with you, then we get to working on a prioritised plan based on everything we discussed.
I will create you your own Notion workspace with all information & resources, pages, systems, and data that you need, as well as trackers where you and I can track your progress and adapt as needed.
The approach I do is called Divide & Conquer, borrowed from diagnostic medicine and adapted for self-improvement. Instead of handing you a checklist of 30 things and saying "good luck," we:
- Assess where you actually are across all the areas that matter (ie looks + career + mindset, and we find balance in your day-to-day life)
- Weigh each gap by how much it's dragging everything else down this way you know what’s been going on
- Prioritise the one or two things that will compound the hardest which is the stuff that fixes multiple problems at once so that you know we aren’t just guessing
- Build your minimum effective stack and adapt as we work through, adding intensity depending on your mood & willpower so you're not overwhelmed
It's a real analysis written for you, about you, based on my knowledge base, our conversations, analysis on our community, my own filtered expertise, and books.
I’m not your guru, we get working on this together. Someone who went through the same shit and is actually listening. It’s the fact there’s another person on the other side who knows what it feels like to be stuck, insecure and overwhelmed by all the contradictions, so it’s easier for me to recognise your potential shortcomings.
I’m someone who's lived it, who relates to it, and who genuinely gives a shit about helping you figure it out.
Why me
- Real data from 1,723 guys who took my scorecard. I analysed all of you. I know the patterns, the traps, and the gaps. I analysed it all through cognitive and behavioural practices. We’re all the same in this niche. You’re me from few years back, so let’s speed this process up so you take the W now.
- Looks didn't save me. I achieved the glow-up. Multiple aesthetics designed from scratch. And I still got cheated on, still got my heart broken, still had to rebuild from zero with massive debt because of me being a people pleaser. That taught me the hardest lesson in this space: your appearance is just a tool to leverage some extra % from lookism. Nobody else in this niche will tell you that because they're still selling this stupid fantasy to monetise off of you.
- I was the kid with no friends. Bullied across multiple schools and countries. Grew up on Discord and online communities because that was the only place I belonged. If you're an introvert or a nerd who feels invisible then welcome to the club and let’s use our genuine intelligence.
- I beat addiction and depression without numbing myself. Weed, nicotine, alcohol, I've been through all of it. Overcame depression without antidepressants because I was afraid of having my ADHD and my own self taken away from me. I found another way that worked for me, and I can share what that looked like.
- I'm still a geek and that's the point. Despite having high appeal now, I still preach that being a nerd is the future of everything. CS degree. Systems thinker. I treat self-improvement like engineering so we do it in a systematic way, we analyse what’s up so you don’t waste your precious time on a stupid insecurity and the limbo we all combat daily.
- I learned from everywhere, not just one community. Not just the looksmax space I also pulled from girls' communities, actual dermatologists, nutritionists, research papers, and real professionals. That's why the advice isn't one-dimensional.
I'm the proof that you can go through all of this like the bullying, the addiction, the heartbreak, the depression, the insecurity but then still come out someone you respect. That's not a sales pitch. And now I want to help you skip the parts I had to learn the hard way.
Ready?
DM me on Instagram. Tell me what's on your mind, whether it's your looks, your career, feeling behind, or whatever it is you need. Otherwise, below you can book a video call.